Letting go of Insecurities 🚮🚮

Good day guys,its been a while and I apologise for that but most importantly we are back. Thanks for checking out the last post,means a lot.
Hmmm I'm tempted to ask,how is our week going with this gradual easing,been seeing pictures of banks and all the huzzling going on there,it is well ooo and we pray measures are taken to curb this pandemic as soon as possible. Like so much is on hold right now but this too shall pass.
Today,we shall be discussing something we all should be familiar with and it's insecurities,even though a lot of people try to act like they don't care,90% of those people actually care because we are flesh and blood....duurh,Lol just heard spirit too.
So what are insecurities?we can simply say it is a state of uncertainty or vulnerability in a way. Like I said earlier,if we are going to be sincere,at some particular time,we all have or had😉 something we were not too sure about or not too confident about and so if anyone happened to shake that table,we would all come tumbling down and all.
I will be focusing on three(3) common insecurities I have come across as a reason of experience and interaction with people, N.B it is beautiful if you can talk about them too but know how to serve the necessary and dispose the rest.📢📢

1. Insecurities as relating to how people perceive you: This is extremely common and in our faces on a constant. People tend to feel that only the female folks have this issue but it's not true.We humans tend to place high importance on how people feel about how we look,how we act,what we wear,how we talk,how we walk and all those things and that's not a totally bad thing but when you need people to always approve then we have an issue because you can't please all,are you a chocolate bar or ice- cream???🤔🤔Even those sweet things are not liked by all so my dear the whole world most likely won't.This is where self-approval or self-love comes in. The question is do you approve you? Have you ever taken your time to think about all the amazing things you are in one package 😘😘😘 and just love up on yourself. You don't have to be fat or slim,fair or dark,tall or short,nerdy or all out to be acceptable. We need to stop comparing to find peace with ourselves, I used to but now my beauty yardstick is Me!!!😊😊😊, you get. Now this doesn't mean you can't do some improvements here and there, definitely not,you can workout,stay fit,get that body you have always wanted,learn that language,improve that posture but for who??? You and not because you feel less because you don't have something they do because guess what?? They don't have something you have too.
2. Finding love: For some reason,people feel insecure about this,a couple of them think like am I good or attractive enough to attract the right person?is my personality attractive enough?and all of that. As much as I agree that we shouldn't be wacky but you shouldn't have to change or act in a certain pattern to get someone to love and appreciate you and most of all,you should never let this insecurity push you to managing or accepting less than you deserve. There is always someone who loves you enough to do forever with you,whose idea of a spec is simply you and disqualifies others because they can't be you. You will find love or love will find you,either way love will be there.😍😍😍😍😘
3. Being Successful: success is a serious something, everyone wants to be successful and live a good life and all. This becomes strong especially when you try a couple of things and they seem to never work out fine,it's easy to give up,overthink and see the bad end before you even start since time keeps ticking. You need to believe in yourself and explore too to find what you do best and work on the weak points. You just need to prep yourself,do your homework,have a positive attitude and a mind that is bold to say "I will try again till I get it".

The summary is this:

• Practice the act of self-approval on a constant while of course still giving room to love others and accept the love others shower on you.
• Focus on your positive features as in Sis/Bruh, pride in yaself!!!
• Stop the comparison, different paces and timing for different faces.
• Give room for personal development consciously.
• Try new things and find your strength.
• Please don't overthink it,it won't always go wrong. Trust!!! Dump negativity.
• Putting God in the picture too won't hurt though.

This was a long one right, I know but sometimes we gotta say these things, I love you and You are AMAZING just the way you are. See you on the next post,byeeeeee.Do subscribe,share and comment.😍😍😍😍